Dnes jsem se zam\u011b\u0159ila na t\u00e9ma osloven\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed mezilidsk\u00e9 komunikace. V\u0161imla jsem si roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9ho ne\u0161varu, kter\u00fd zejm\u00e9na na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch vede k \u010dast\u00e9 ne\u00fact\u011b i poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed. Poj\u010fme se nad t\u00edm zamyslet a ud\u011blat dobr\u00fd krok v tomto sm\u011bru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 na internetu jsme si zvykli na prapodivnou etiku. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je to \u0161koda. M\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee po p\u00e1r olajkovan\u00fdch postech, zaslan\u00fdch samolepk\u00e1ch, srdc\u00ed a gif\u016f m\u016f\u017eeme druh\u00e9 oslovit v\u0161elijak. Lid\u00e9 si v diskuz\u00edch donce zakr\u00e1tko po-tykaj\u00ed a \u00facta se kr\u016f\u010dek po kr\u016f\u010dku vytr\u00e1c\u00ed. Za\u010darovan\u00fd kruh nep\u011bkn\u00fdch ur\u00e1\u017eek na sebe nenech\u00e1 dlouho \u010dekat. Mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s jsou pak sv\u011bdky poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00edch virtu\u00e1ln\u00edch slovn\u00edch p\u0159est\u0159elek a hejt\u016f. M\u00e1m za to, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b jednou z p\u0159\u00ed\u010din m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt absence osloven\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk \u010dlov\u011bka m\u00e1 br\u00e1t se v\u0161\u00edm v\u0161udy i s jeho jm\u00e9nem. Na\u0161e jm\u00e9na maj\u00ed smysl a ka\u017ed\u00e9mu ud\u011bl\u00e1 radost, kdy\u017e je hezky osloven. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee nen\u00ed vhodn\u00e9 na sebe jen tak halekat \u010d\u00e1u, h\u00e9j, br\u00fd den, hele ty … apod. Osloven\u00ed m\u00e1 kouzelnou moc, do podv\u011bdom\u00ed druh\u00e9 osoby zasouv\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee se o ni zaj\u00edm\u00e1me a \u017ee mluv\u00edme p\u0159\u00edmo k n\u00ed. Osloven\u00edm upev\u0148ujeme vztah i d\u016fv\u011bru. Pou\u017e\u00edvejme tedy sv\u00e1 jm\u00e9na. Oslovit se m\u016f\u017eeme v\u017edy na za\u010d\u00e1tku, tam je pozornost komunika\u010dn\u00edho partnera nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se lou\u010d\u00edte m\u016f\u017eete jm\u00e9no znovu pou\u017e\u00edt, aby si doty\u010dn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk zapamatoval, \u017ee jste o n\u011bj projevovali z\u00e1jem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ani hejtov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edjmen\u00edm, nen\u00ed hezk\u00e9. V\u011bta: \u201eNeumanov\u00e1, pros\u00edm v\u00e1s co to p\u00ed\u0161ete za nesmysly? ,<\/em>\u201c zn\u00ed hrub\u011b, p\u0159esto\u017ee je tam slovo pros\u00edm. Nebo \u201eJano, sma\u017ete to<\/em>\u201c N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed k\u0159estn\u00ed jm\u00e9no: Jestli\u017ee tuto formu v dan\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti v\u0161ichni berou jako v po\u0159\u00e1dku, tak to respektujeme. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed varianta ale zn\u00ed: \u201ePan\u00ed Jano, sma\u017ete to, pros\u00edm.<\/em>\u201c Prvotn\u00ed pozdrav n\u011bkoho ciz\u00edho na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt: „Ahoj Andreo<\/em>“ nebo „Ahoj Milo\u0161i<\/em>“ zn\u00ed to ur\u010dit\u011b l\u00e9pe ne\u017e neosobn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1u, brej, hele, omg dobr\u00fd, co d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161?, twl dobrej profil, apod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dokonce u na\u0161ich bli\u017en\u00edch (man\u017eel\u00e9, d\u011bti, partne\u0159i, kolegov\u00e9) vynech\u00e1v\u00e1me osloven\u00ed a nap\u0159\u00edklad v „esemsk\u00e1ch“<\/em> p\u00ed\u0161eme plytce. P\u0159itom na\u0161e jm\u00e9na vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed kus na\u0161\u00ed osobnosti. A i star\u00e1 zn\u00e1m\u00e1 moudrost prav\u00ed: „pojmenuj v\u0161e sv\u00fdm jm\u00e9nem<\/em>„. Co mysl\u00edte? Stoj\u00ed za to si d\u011blat radost a hezky se oslovovat?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dnes jsem se zam\u011b\u0159ila na t\u00e9ma osloven\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed mezilidsk\u00e9 komunikace. V\u0161imla jsem si roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9ho ne\u0161varu, kter\u00fd zejm\u00e9na na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch vede k \u010dast\u00e9 ne\u00fact\u011b i poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed. Poj\u010fme se nad t\u00edm zamyslet a ud\u011blat dobr\u00fd krok v tomto sm\u011bru. Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 na internetu jsme si zvykli na prapodivnou etiku. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je to \u0161koda. M\u00e1me…
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